Does it seem to anyone else that the tone of political, social, and personal discourse has deteriorated in the United States in the past few decades. It started slowly but seems to be accelerating more and more, picking up speed. When people don’t have ideas or hold dearly to ideas that aren’t working, they stop discussing the issues and start attacking the other party, the other group, or the other person.
Good people refuse to run for political office or participate in polite conversation because of the fear of being attacked personally. Not their ideas being discussed, but their character being attacked. When you don’t have anything meaningful to say, character assassination draws the attention away from your bankrupt ideas and focuses the attention on the character of the other person. What can I say, we do like to gossip. When you are in a discussion and you’re losing, change the subject, you might not win, but you won’t lose.
The next time you are talking with someone, or you’re listening to a politician and they start smearing someone’s character, ask them, if possible, or at least ask yourself, “what does this have to do with the issue?”
Watch TV, listen to discussions at work, at school, in the mall, read what your friends say on Facebook. How often is “Character” discussed under the guise of political or theological debate?
Romans 12:18 “8If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”
The old saying, “Love the sinner, hate the sin.” We could for the sake of this conversation say, “Love the speaker, hate the idea.” Or as Paul said in 1 Thessalonians 5:11, “11Therefore encourage one another and build one another up”. He goes on to say, “just as you are doing.” Ouch! I really don’t think he would say that to us today, do you?
How do we change the direction of personal attacks.
1. Be honest with ourselves, do we attack others. If so, stop it!
2. If those around you attack others, walk away or at least stop listening
them.
3. If it’s on TV, change channels or better yet, turn the TV off.
4. If it’s on Facebook, either don’t respond, or better yet, ask, “What does
this have to do with the issue?”
5. And then there’s the quote out of The Bible, “You shall love your
neighbor as yourself.” This is written at least 9 times, maybe God is
trying to tell us something? Are we listening?
God’s Peace and Blessings
Pastor Ed
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